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He’s definitely giving off signs he is confused about his feelings for you.Īnd so, he’s left with a dilemma.

Logically, he continues to believe that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship (whether he acknowledges that he’s scared of commitment or not), though his heart is not in agreement with his brain. Maybe he planned to be an eligible bachelor (not unlike this rhino on Tinder) for the rest of his life.īut then you entered his life, and his plans were shattered. Your guy may have been single for a long time, and quite content to be so. It’s pretty common for guys who aren’t ready to jump into a relationship to be different in person than they are when they’re away from you. Here’s why your guy does this hot/cold thing, why he shows signs he is scared of commitment. He doesn’t call or text for a couple of days. You feel connected.īut when you’re apart, you get just…crickets. When you’re together, it’s BAM! BOOM! The sparks flying between you two could burn the building down.Ĭonversation is on point. Things are hot and passionate when you’re together. Let’s navigate this tricky subject together. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing you just have to be aware of what’s going on with him and figure out the best course of action to get what you want: commitment from him.īut how can you know if he’s in love with you but is afraid to commit? Read on, my Sweet, Sassy Lady. So, in other words: he may show those signs he loves you but he’s scared of letting go and giving into love. He may have completely fallen in love with you, but if he’s got other stuff going on in his head or past experiences that bar him from being ready to be vulnerable to you, you’re gonna be swimming in that gray area for a while. Love is all about the gray area, let me tell you. I try to stay away from such black and white ideals. If he loves me, then he wants to be with me forever and all the time! When a guy ghosts, sometimes you need to let him go.), and may require a bit of patience on your part to help him work through it. Pulling away emotionally is not always an indicator of the end of a relationship (though, you need to know when it is. If you’re unsure what’s going on in his heart, you simply need to pay better attention to understand why he’s doing what he’s doing. Get to the bottom of why he’s afraid to commit.